Learning To Be The One ♥ Shian

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Wednesday
[ 15 December 2010 ]




Goin ECM.
For Movie Lelio popo with June, Carmen, Adryan , Yang and Kelvin.
Reach there saw many friends !
All watch Lelio popo and in the same room.
Lols.
Kc, Lynn, Khui, Dennis, Ryan, Zhao Ann, Winky ! :D

Was very enjoy with the movie !
Make all of us Laugh ! And release Stresss :)
Feel free come and watch this movie !
Can make you more Happy . LOL

Funny Movie ! I love this :)




Thursday
[ 16 December 2010 ]



2pm take my car go and repair.
Wait for 1hour plus i guessss.
Damn hot over there !
The uncle make me quite piss off.
Half way Smoking Half way Chating with friend.
Shit man -.-

Then fetch lynn and khui go Ecm.
She wana buy watch for her Honey.
LOL. Me and khui choose for her.
It was so nice !
I love it much too.
And lynn bought one Purple colour watch for herself.
Awwwhh ! I Love it Muchhieeee !
:DDD


Then go Ms Veg eat again.
Chit Chat :)

Eleeeehh. LOL

=x


Addcited to Iphone 4 now.
Click and Save.
New Picture ! LOL
Affected by Khuuii.
We keeep on take picture :D

Every night go out Yamcha.
Never stop.
Gonna Pokai @@


Arhh.
One more thing.
A song introduce by Khuii.

" My Way " by

張敬軒


一直在醞釀 一直在盼望
爸爸和媽媽 唯一的理想
二月第—天 一九八一年
我第一次對他們眨了眨眼

等待快點過去多少個明天
希望這寶貝快快長大一點一點
身體要健康所有的事情都如所願
BABY 長大以後就是小軒

I WILL FIND MY WAY.
I WANT A DIFFERENT WAY.
AFTER THE WIND AND RAIN.
THERE'LL BE A BRAND NEW DAY.
小時候受傷有人心疼失落有人安慰.
現在遇到困難自己就要學會面對.

I WILL FIND MY WAY.
I WANT A DIFFERENT WAY.
NOTHING TO STOP ME NOW.
NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY.
困難要用我的堅強和努力勇敢面對.
現在用心去追 感覺就對.
I'LL FIND MY WAY.

一直就這樣 找我的方向
不理會別人 奇怪的眼光
直到有一天 我忽然發現
夢想已經在實現

等待快點過去多少個明天
看著自己已經慢慢長大一點一點
我的生活應該讓我自己學會掌握
相信自己 不怕風雨再多.


Meaningful Lyrics .
I love it :D
Can hear through my blogger Player :)




Shian.







That's all for today.
Take care all !


Tomorrow going for Education Fair at PWTC
:D



Stay Happy always.



" I Hate My Dream

I Hate It !









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Sungai Lembing :)

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11-12-2010
[ Saturday ]



Woke up on 630am.
Then go hau hwa house.
Sit his car then go Sungai Lembing :D
But before this. We go Yang house wait for the others.
But seem all not yet wake up -.-
Wait till 810am only start our journey.

We go by 2 car.
Myvi and 4wheel car :D
And I sit Myvi.
Love it !!!

On the Way we keep on " Cut ppl's line "
Wooot !
Fast and Chi gek.
LOL

Stupid chin ask him " Cut " from left hand side.
BODOH ! -.-

Speed track : 130km/h

Soon reached there.
Having breakfast over there.
Is damn fulll !


Afterdat all of us sit 4wheel car.
Go around Sungai Lembing.
We visit Lombong Bijih Timah, " Cai Hong " Waterfall.
And I just sit in da car. Enjoy :D

Share some photo here :)


Entrance for the Lombong. So dark !


Going uphills. Half way to " Cai Hong " Waterfall.

U know what . This is Hot Water !! Uphills how come got Hot Water.

Our 4wheel car :D


Playing around.
12plus pm Reach home .
So tiredd !

On the way back home at highway Speed Track 160km/h , Myvi.
( Is my Car's Top Speed -.- )
Feeel nice !
One day i should try :DDD

Sooon all of us fall alseep in da car.
While my friend driving.
Kesian diaaaa. XD

Simple day today.
Nothing special.
:)



I miss Golf ! :'(

For Me. Christmas such a Normal Day.




That all for today.
See you soon !
:)



Stay happy always :D







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Shian.

郑百轩 :)

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无聊一天,写下这。

其实,我并不是那么喜欢我的星座。
怎么好像注定都要这样的结果。
就从来也没有美好的结果。
或许我,
是不该拥有吧。


魔羯座的人天生善良,感情也都很脆弱,
也许会因为一些很小的事情难过很长时间。
所以他 们通常在表面表现的酷酷的与事隔离的样子,
其实他们只是不希望让别人看到他脆弱的一面,坚强,理智。

我,

所有魔羯都拥有2个性格,只是大部分魔羯都不愿意去接受,
因为他们希望自己永远的傻傻的活下去,
当魔羯讨厌一个人的时候那就是一种绝对,
魔羯不会随便讨厌一个人,但是如果哪个人做的太过分,
这个人会从魔羯心底彻底抹杀,
如果这个人激怒了魔羯,呵呵那么这个人就只能等着灾难的降临,
魔羯并不会随便的去加害一个人,因为魔羯也讨厌自己的坏。

————————————————————————————————————————

魔羯比任何一个星座对感情都很认真,
恢复伤痕的时间也很长,
他们会选择消失,这样对你对他都有好处,
因为他怕多看你一眼而又再次无法自拔,
他怕再多看你一眼,
心如刀割.

你也一样吧。
不想看到我。
我想,我猜透了。

放心,
你会过得很好。




现在的我啊,
真想离开这里。
总觉得这里不适合我。
一切都好像是一场梦。

梦醒了,
一切从零开始。


不去抱着期望,
我将会对任何事看得随便,
因为到最后。
我比定要承担这一切令我心里麻木的结果。

有时候说,想太多,
有时候说,该死,
累,已不是我的借口,

因为 郑百轩 已经习惯了。
你也是吧?


——————————————————————————————————————

无所谓,
反正难过就敷衍走一回。
但愿绝望和无奈远走高飞。


无聊中写下部落格,
真搞不明白我自己。
-.-

I wish all of you stay happy always.
Smile :)







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Shian.

Last Day .

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I think today gonna write a long post.
I guess. XD


7 December 2010
[ Monday ]


Got chemistry exam.
U knw what.
I over slept..
Late for half an hour .
Luckily Mr Lee called me !
When i received da call is 8AM
I just jump down from the bed.
Then drive Fast ! Arghhh. I just hope to cross over the traffic light.
But infront got car. -.-
Anyway. Really have to thanks Mr lee for wake me up.
( Is so down that day )


9 Decemeber 2010
[ Wednesday ]


Can say is my Last Day of SPM ?
Today is Biology exam.
Arhhhh. I just don have mood to study at all.
Is already in Holiday mood
:D

I plan to wake up at 4am to study.
But . I just too Piggy.
Cant wake and almost over slept again.
Ishhhh.
Luckily Chin morning call me.
9 missed call. LOL
Anyway. Really need thanks him for wake me up.
If not i think my Biology Bye Bye . XD
So, Never study for Form5 chapter.

Well. Dont care larr.
What i read just cant get in my mind.
Hmm. So let it be.

Paper and Paper 2 finished !
Mood is so relax that time.
:D

Go lot 66 having lunch. Then back schoool.
Lepak and hanging around again.
2pm. Go in class ready for Paper 3.

Hahaha. But before the exam start.
We ask for request to take Picture !
Ketua Pengawas mentioned !
' Kamu semua ambil Gambar pada waktu rehat , Bukan waktu Exam '
Saya tak bertanggunjawab. Jangan post to FB. '

LOL . he is so scared of the Laws i think.?
XD
Then we take picture. And making noise.
Paper 3 for us..
All of us just no more mood.
All ready to Play. :DD

Tik Tok Tik Tok !
Question NO 2 !
I laugh and said .
What the heck is this question.
Never see before at all man ! LOL
I guess all of us duno how to do at all.
All just write crap i guess. XD

Because still got time left.
I wrote on da question paper
' What The Hell is This, LEMBU pun tak boleh Buat ! '
Passing around. My friend laughed.
XD
And we playing our car alarm in da classs.
MUahahaha ! The car alarm keep on ringing.
Is very Noisy ! The teacher Keeep on go out and see.

We play our car alarm. Just too free that time.
Including me, Fun man ! XDD

330pm !!
MERDEKA ! Woaaaaaaaaah !
All Shout and run down.
Playing around.
Throw the Paper. And Throw the Egg -.-
Unfortunately. I Kena Flour by my friend.
Whole body is white Colour.
But still okay.
I take revenge ! XDD

All of us just playing fool around.
Put firecrackers some more -.-
Then Lastly our car !
All press Hornnnnnnnnnn.
My car Horn is the best.
LOL


410pm reached home.
Feel so tired.
Then go Wash my car.
Fill Oil and pump tayar.


At night. Go tc and Cherating steak house.

I can relax for one week i think.
Next week having Chinese Paper.
But i just dont care
:DDDD



____________________________________


What i want to say is.
Whatever :D

Fed Up.


魔羯座并不适合谈恋爱,因为爱情不要我们。

XD
My Kai Gor said this.
Quite nice xia de.
Lolss.



______________________________________

Hmm.
I'm not going for PLKN d.
Cox i'm not da first batch.
I rather go study . Duwan waste time.

Where to Go.?
KL.? No money -.-
Singapore.?
Still considering.
But i might try the chance.


Hmmmm.
Just feel like want to leave here..
One day,
I will go TC alone. Sit on da beach.

Feeel it :)








Stay happy all.

Learned to Smile.
But. Dont act smile when you are not happy.
This is not the best way.
Because you are lying to yourself.


Take care.
:)

If one day,
You can listening to the song.
And you can feel it.
Congratz ! Welcome to my World :DD

The feeel is so Special when you fall into the Music.
:)


想笑,来伪装掉下的眼泪。





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Shian. Fed Up

Waiting

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Hmm. Almost 3days i guess.

What she doing ?
Where is she ?
Good or bad ?




Stay happy always.








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Shian.

我的生肖

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屬猴的人性格很奇怪,有時候超愛說話,有時候可以一天不說話,高興的時候,會拼命的說話,不高興的時候,一句話也不說。 屬猴的人不愛記仇,但誰對他好誰對他不好,他還是記得很清楚的。
屬猴的人把真實的自己藏於半夜的寂靜和午夜明朗的笑聲中。
屬猴的人最注重的就是安全感。希望被保護,卻常常是一個人。
屬猴的人不容易愛上一個人,但一旦愛上便很難自拔。一旦受傷,總是被傷的很深,只有幾個貼心朋友。

屬猴的人是個很愛撒嬌的孩子、 屬猴的喜歡海,喜歡顧影自憐。喜歡自己舔傷口。
屬猴的人性格很古怪而又孤僻,他們會突然在大笑中沈默,感覺悲傷。
屬猴的人心裏想什麼從來不說,別人也猜不到。
屬猴的人嘴上說不在乎、心裏卻早已悲涼、心裏的那把火早已熄滅 。

屬猴的人選擇了沈默、不在像以前那樣摯熱的去追求某樣東西 。
屬猴的人總是很愛回憶、回憶以前的點點滴滴、以前的大小事只是默默的想著。
屬猴的人天生敏銳,與生具備的第六感,對人的內心有超乎尋常的洞察力。但他們會把這些東西放在心裏,他可以把你的眼神、內心看得很清楚,但卻不會告訴你,他用旁觀的態度判定虛偽。
屬猴的人不懂甜言蜜語,不屑拍馬屁 。
屬猴的人本能的排斥虛偽和做作的人 。

屬猴的人不會真的發火,就算生氣,也很快忘記!
屬猴的人只對真正懂他的人,展示他的創造性,他的情緒他變得冷淡就證明他開始對你重新審視,當他越是沈默,就代表他越是生氣 。
屬猴的人可能看起來很凶,其實內心是最柔軟的 。
屬猴的人看起來很冷淡,但那只是保護自己的方法 。
屬猴的人很重視友情,但被傷害後絕對不再友善 。

屬猴的人很容易被感動,但感動中又保有理智 。
屬猴的人可能看起來很堅強,其實是最脆弱的 。
屬猴的人可能很愛哭,但他的哭並不代表認輸 。
屬猴的人可能看起來很笨,其實大智若愚 。

屬猴的人可能做事很毛躁,但內心很細心 。
屬猴的人天生敏感和細膩,卻會用心鑒定 。

屬猴的人懦弱,受了傷之後,只知道躲在無人的地方獨自哭泣 。

屬猴的人虛偽,明明已經心痛到無法呼吸,還要在最愛的他面前假裝堅強;不輕易讓任何人走進他自己獨自的世界

屬猴的人笑容,無論開心或者悲傷,都是一臉笑容,笑容,是他們偽裝自己最好的武器,

屬猴的人眼淚,從不輕易讓人看見,他的淚,從來只有她知道,只是,誰又知道,在他們的笑臉背後,埋藏的是深深的悲傷,笑的越開心,傷的越深 。

屬猴的人退縮,屬猴的,永遠不會輕易說愛或者喜歡,除非真的喜歡到了極點,否則,要他們表白幾乎不可能,但是,一旦表白,就是不遺餘力的付出,即使知道這樣做換來的結果可能是深深的傷害…

屬猴的人,永遠只可能做同一件事兩次,表白也一樣,同一個人,只可能聽到他們向你最深的表白兩次,兩次之後,就是絕對的安靜了…即使仍然深愛著,他們也沒有勇氣再說第三遍我愛你…他們的退縮,不能重複一件事第三次 。

屬猴的人愚蠢,不懂的怎麼挽回深愛的人的心,只能自己心中默默的祝福和祈禱。

受了傷,只會在角落獨自忍受錐心的痛。

屬猴的人:體貼第一名,愛吃第一名,愛家第一名,孝順第一名,多愁善感第一名。


This is me.

:)

What i care is all about you.




I try to change.
I take as normal.
I smile :)



You smile, I Smile.




Love & Miss You
:D







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Shian.

SPM

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Hmm.
This few day pass not very well.
Having some friend problem.?
I think so.?

Hmm.
For you all.
I maybe is the bastard larr..
:)
Nvm. Is okayy.
Accept the truth lar.
:DD


Just talk infront of me baa.
Quite hurt some time.
Hmm.
Nothing i can doo.
Just smile and face everything :)


SPM around the corner.
And yet i not ready at all !!
I wonder how to sit for this Exam..

I just can try my best ba !
Hmm.



[ Dont understand me well ]
[ Dont judge me if you duno me well ]

Dont ever just think the way you are.




But,
I wanna thanks my One always here with me.
:)

EVOL UOY

XDD











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Just For You ♥

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Long time never update my blog huh.
Because lazy and have nothing to write.
LOL =x


But today,
I gonna write this post for the One.
A simple post :)


You " make me become more confident.
" You " make me wont be the past anymore.
Wont act like stupid like last time.
This time.
You will see the better of me, Shian
:DD

And I believe myself can do it !
Just because of " You "



___________________________________


For you, My Girl


I never knew I’d find a Love so true.
This one right here, is just for You.

Remember that one day,

I held your hands and I kissed your lips then I told you.
Our love was meant to be and always will forever.
Give me that happiness I get from you just being there.

I always see you when I close my eyes, You are on my mind.

I need You right here with me, close by my side.
Gonna let you know,
My Love to You is straight from the heart .

Forever You are my girl.
Forever be my World.
You are the Only One.

The only One I will ever need, my life is You and me.

You are my Queen.

I’m here for you.
Cuz you are my Everything.
You always make me feel like everything's gonna be alright.

:)

Just for " You "
My only One for me
:D



__________________________________________

I not dare to promise You Anything.
I scare will hurt you if i cannot do so.

But there is a one thing i can do for YOU.
I will always by ur side.
Give You warm.
Give You Happiness.
Give You Blissness.

I will try my best. To give You my everything :)

[ I'm nothing without You ]





You are Special for Me.
I just so in love with You.
=x









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I'm a Bad Guy

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Hmm.
Today. I gonna express my feeling here.
Hmm.

Alright.
Mayb what i did is wrong.
And not suitable to do so at this time.
Right.?
For you all.

Izit think that is nonsense.?
And yet.
Asking :
" How come they will like this.? "
What a bad gal and bad boy right.


I know.
Most of you hate me.
Hate me this kind of Attitude.
Steal ppl something, kind of attidude right.?

First,
I'm here say sorry to you all.
Yet hurt you all so.?
I knw sorry doest mean anything.

I know.
Now not suitable to do so on this time.
And yet.
Who Knows.?
We cannot expect anything will happen on the next second right.?
Even though i also cant believe this will happen.
Really.


Yeah.
Anything just blame on me.
I'm the causes right.?
Haha.


Now.
I cannot do anything yet.
I duwan because of this .
Lost friend again.
Really.
Is hurt !

Aihhsss.
I know all of you not agree with me at all.
But i have to say so.



I will wait for the good timing.





Lastly,
You all is my Buddy !
Never changed :)
Mayb some of you dont think so.
But nevermind.

I am who I am.



_____________________________________


* Dont EVER try to Judge anything before you know the Truth.
I know most of you Hate me.

But. There are something you cant just judge from ur side.




If you dont like me.
If you hate me.

Please.
Just tell me infront of me.
I wont angry you.
Because i know this will happen to me Sooooooon.

I say again.
If you hate or dont like me.
Please show to me.

Dont talk behind.
Donid show dat kind Of Emotion !

Okay.?



I willing to accept.
:)


Thanks.




Sorry to you all if i say anything make you guys angry.










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GALA DINNER ♥

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Yesterday was the Gala Dinner which Organize by Kiwanis Kuantan Malaysia.
On behalf Sultanah Pahang is coming for our dinner.
Rehearsal from morning till afternoon.

Afterthat go buy some stuff .
Bath. Buy mcd For children.
Reach there around 6plus.
Sleepy !

Last night slept at 2am.
Bcuz train the song.
Alright.
Mi, Qian, Janet, Eric and Dolphin in one team to serve the guest.
Keep Smiling.
LOL.
Leg painn douu seii.

Afterdat Sultanah Pahang reached.
All is very quite and serious.
We stand Straight and shake hand with her.
She is so niceeeee.
:DD

Afterdat diinnner start.
We sit down and rest.
Afterdat Performing singing and dancing.

And lastly our Installation, By Sultanah Pahang.
;)

Around 11pm.
Sultanah Pahang went back.
And yet all of us stand in a straight line shake hand again.
And say goodbye to her.
Of course many police and bodyguard there.


Kiwanis Club Kuantan Malaysia Rockss !!

Afterdat go enjoy our Supper.
Go andrew house.
230am reached home.
Sleepy !!

Rehearsal


:))



This few days,
Everything goes very weird.
All come one by one to me.

Is that really wrong for u all on what i have did.

* Something cannot just guess on ur side ,
There are some reasoning.
Hope can understand.
:)

And yet hope she fine.
Dont blame her without knew whats going on.


__________________________


Lastly,
Just being urself.

And.

[ I'm still the One ]
Never changed.



Smile all !

Stay happy owayz :D








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Have fun ! :D

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Alright.
Yesterday my time is totally fill up.
Morning having add math class from 9am to 11am.
Finish school all my friends play da car around in the school.
Including me.
:D

We drive everyone car.
Citra and Myvi.
Owhh ! Myvi damn nice !
Nice to drive man.
Hope i got a myvi car.
:((

Nice ar.
Then all put the car at the basketball court.
is about 6 car @@

Afterdat go Kiwanis centre having meeting.
OMG.
Kena perform indian dance.
Aduhhh.
Dieeeeeee.
T.T


_____________________________

At night.
Fetch bro go ttn.
Then solo having dinner myself at mamak dang.
Afterdat go fetch them and go Yamcha at Sandai.
:)

We 12 ppl here.
After yamcha all go see Agua.
Woot !

Is totally chi gek and fun. XDDD
=P

Those agua having body show infront of mi.
@@

Waseii.
Then garee kena kiss by the Agua.
XD

Bout mi,
Almost Kena too lar.
=x
Ryan keep push my head to HIM.
Yukkk !!

Alright.
Thats all what i wan to write.

Long time never updated my blog jor.
Paisehh.



________________________________________


Just finish my trial.
After this is SPM.
Gonna study dy.
Aihhhh.






Hmm.

Take care all.
Stay happy oways.
:D



Hmm.
Sorrry to you all.
Hmm.


Hiazzz.











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Shian.

NOTIS !

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Hi all my Friends !
Have some notice wana tell you all.
Firstt of all.

SMK ST. Thomas having Installation Night at Restoran Tanjung .
Date : 27-08-2010 ( Friday )
Time : 715pm.
Attire : Smart Casual
Ticket : RM25

There are many performance here.
Hope you guys can support !
For more information,
Kindly contact mi.
016-9303519

Thanks


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Hi Friends again ! :DD


There is a [Charity Night ] organized by Kiwanis Key Club Kuantan for All the students in Kuantan.

Venue : Vistana Hotel Ballroom
Date : ( 18 September 2010 )
Time : 7.30pm
Attire : Semi - Formal.
Ticket : RM45

We have Invited " Danny 温力铭 , Ester May May 詹嘉美 and Monkey D - 摩斯特 • DA.MON.STER " for Our Charity Night Performance !
Dont miss the chance ! ♥

For more information,
Kindly contact me, 016-9303519



Charity Night is open for anyone teenager between 13 to 25years.
What is Kiwanis Club.?
Well. We doing thing is for helping anyone who really need our help in the World.

Your attendance to our Charity Night will Fill Up our Night more JoyFul !


Let's Us help the one who really need our help.
A meaningful good deed in ur life
x)









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Shian

Kuang Hwa Carnival ;)

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Woke up on 650am.
Then rush and go kuang hwa school.
Woottt.
Not badd,
Quite many ppl larrr.
XD

Reach there.
Me and my friend helping on carry those Big Stuff.

After dat go register.
We are helping on Recylce worr.
Nothing to do also.

Sienzz.
Quite freee de.
XD

Saw Mr. Lee there.
First time saw he wear casual.
LOL.


After having breakfast.
Then go Qiao Yi stall there 38.
Many thing not yet sell off .

So we guys help her !
We shout and Shout !
Finally sold out everything .
Fun and funnny.
:DD

Soon, Teacher who incharge the stall ask us for help.
Help them sell off everything too.
XDD

Yet we sold out those stuff.
=)))



Aiyaaa.
No photo worr.
Din take Photo. Paisehh.
But it was a great Carnival.
:DD





Thats all for today.

Take care all !

Stay happpy.









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Shian

Confession Of ♥ Friend

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It's Been a While.
Since my heart have been changed.
Since i have been dealing with this loneliness.

Everytime you came back.
I Hate the guy that made you cry.
I do rather Protect you.
Although i duno if it will make it better.

This time i will hold you.
And Love You is what i thought.
Please come to me now.
And be my Lady.

I have watched you for so long.
I stood there by bot saying a word.
And hiding my Pitiful heart.


As a Friend,
To remain as a Friend.
I have to push the Confessions down my throat.

But I will confess to you now.
" Nuruel Saranghae "


You hold my hand and tell me,
you only have me.
Keeping me as a Friend.
You say it's a blessing.

Whenever you say let's never change.
I have to push my feeling down.
It might be best if i protect you.



I wass too scrared to lose you.



______________________________

I hate those who like show off.
Whatever !

Being myself .





Shian Ps ♥











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Shian .

不是不想恋爱,而是,不想随便的恋爱!

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What A Meaningful post ! :))


单身并没有什么不好,你一样可以关心你喜欢的人,这样可以让大众觉得你是一个很好朋友;而恋爱中的人,关心别人则会引发醋意,从爱情观说也是对爱情不够忠诚,但不
关心别人则又失去很多友谊,一旦你分手了,就赔了夫人又折兵。所以现在单身,不是说你不向往爱情,而是证明你对未来的他的一份痴情。



  爱情晚点来,就不会走得太早。



  我们不需要靠失恋来成熟,我们应该利用别人失恋的经验成长起来。



  一个优秀的人单身说明这人足够优秀,一个再优秀的人随意恋爱说明这人的优秀只是表面
而已,真正希望对方好的,就是默默在背后关心对方。最好的承诺,不是爱你一万年,而是根本不需要承诺。



  学生时代,周围接触最多的人都年龄相仿,所以价值观都差不多,都想着将来有个好工作,有个好恋人。正因为理想差不多,所以2个人在一起会很开心,也就很容易走到了一起。至于恋爱是否会影响学习,这里就不说了,因为既有促进作用,也有消极作用,因人异。

  恋人不是靠寻找的,因为在没有完全了解对方之前,对方可以为了吸引你暂时改变自己,而一旦你完全了解对方后,分手就指日可待了。所以恋爱应该是日久生情,彼此非常熟知后自然地走在一起,甚至无需表白。不要认为对方人很好就轻易妥协,人好不是爱情的全部你们必须为爱情的将来做打算。



  如果遇到一个你深爱的女孩,而你感觉她也喜欢你,大部分的人都是直接就开始交往了。这样做的后果就是前面所说的,最后失去一个深爱的人。你应该以朋友的名义关心她,在毕业后仍保持联系,然后为了她努力工作。当你在事业上有所成就后再去找她,如果此时她仍在等你,说明你没看错人。



  女孩,如果一个男生他很快就喜欢上妳,那么他以后也会很快就喜欢上别人的。




  在学校里的爱情是无知的,在社会中的爱情可能是有目的的,只有遇到逆境仍走下去的爱情才是永恒的。



  爱情不是和一个最适合自己的人在一起,而是遇到一个更适合自己的人时,能够坚守自己对所爱的人作出的承诺。爱情不是两个人眼睛对视,而是两个人的眼光看着同一个方向投视。

  网上的“爱你,为你做这些事”看起来很感人,因为大部分人都不是这种爱情。爱情不是一种潮流,你要有自己的看法,在你的理想恋人未出现时,你要有毅力选择一直单身,而不是找个替代品。当你做到后,网上传的那些事,在你的爱情中是再基本不过的了。





  男生,在谈恋爱时不要抱着不适合就分手的想法,一定要慎重地考虑清楚,女朋友就是你未来的老婆,结婚只不过是多一张无用的纸而已,结婚并不是为爱情加了锁,真正的爱情从来就不需要任何的束缚。一旦你选择了恋爱,就要有一种责任感,你要为你父母的儿子、你老婆的丈夫、你未来孩子的爸爸负责!



  虽然分手是另一段爱情的重新开始,但初恋只有一次,一个人在初恋中对爱情的向往是最多的,而一旦恋爱失败,以后的每一次恋爱中,最难忘的还是初恋。



  所以,不是不想恋爱,而是,不想随便的恋爱!









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